Something I have noticed in my travels thus far; in this day and age, young men (my age especially) view kindness as weakness.
The implicit idea is that you are a “pushover” or a “pussy” for showing gentleness (being a gentleman). Masculine ideals of a generation past have been discarded in favor of everyone imitating a jungle predator in over-priced shoes. The apathetic acceptance and market success of such facades reflect poorly upon our culture.
To be a strong man requires the temperance of human kindness. This noble ability to make and endure the reality of distinction, to create a hierarchy of values and apply them to human beings is what separates heroes from the cowards, the elites from the brutes.
So what happened? Where did the chivalrous man go, and who left this subhuman animal in his place? This filthy thug “hero” certainly hasn’t been the prevailing dynamic forever.

